Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Dating is. . . .

Dating is absolutely a hard thing to do nowadays. Everyone thinks they're entitled to do whatever they want to do in a relationship like they are single. To me, if you're going to be acting up by cheating and saying such things as "I need my own space", then DON'T GET INVOVLED with someone in the first place!!!!! It's a waste of time to you and your partner. Different people have their different aspects on how a relationship is supposed to be. ME personally, I go for the traditionally monogamous relationship....although it wasn't always that way; but hey, ya gotta grow up and get serious about things one day right? I was in a relationship previuosly.....actually three: one for one year and two months, another on and off with someone I really love, and a recent one that only lasted a few hours. The first....was all good and everything, we just had distance between us and he was demanding so I had to cut him loose since I wasn't really in love with him anymore. The second, was with the love of my life who I recently broke up with because he was cheating (REALLY BAD...can't go into detail), but I will say that we would've been engaged had he not done so. He still does but I don't think so. The third and final relationship was THE SHORTEST relationship I'd EVER had in my entire life! It was only a couple of hours to a friend of mine. He couldn't really make up his mind on what he wanted to do. I realize now that he was still going through relationship problems, as well I, so we decided to take it slow as friends to see what happens in the future. Yup, dating is a serious game. Game I say, because you have to know how to play or you will seriously get played; no lie. Every one has come across that person who they thought was THE ONE but